How to stop reacting to other people’s behavior. And take back your sovereignty.

I have a discussion with myself — quite frequently — when I find myself triggered by someone else’s action or inaction. This is the short version of what this conversation sounds like in my head -between the part of me that wants other people to change to fit my needs and the other part of me that knows that … Continue reading How to stop reacting to other people’s behavior. And take back your sovereignty.

Asking the Heckler to Sit Down

Do you have people in your life who tend make annoying, negative or hurtful comments on a frequent basis? Maybe they don’t even recognize it, but they are chronic complainers. Or possibly, they are a bit judgmental, perceive themselves as helpful, but are actually just frequently critiquing and criticizing you. Compassion is the Foundation and … Continue reading Asking the Heckler to Sit Down

Stop Spitting in the Wind

Wouldn't it be amazing if we had the ability to get others to magically comply with our wishes? What if we had a technology to morph our environment - to remove anything that is annoying and energy-sucking - so that we could spend more time on the stuff that really matters? One of my “it … Continue reading Stop Spitting in the Wind

Why the Future of Business Will Surf the Wave of Consciousness

What if, you could change your competitive strategy to your cooperation strategy? What if, you could shift your perspective from taking market share to collaboration? What if, you discovered that your success can be found within you? What if, you realized that innovation is about quieting your mind and finding the connection to the field … Continue reading Why the Future of Business Will Surf the Wave of Consciousness

Choosing the Meaning in the Waves of Challenge

Okay, so this concept may require some consideration on your part. But, from what I have learned about the fundamental nature of existence, we are the ones - each one of us- who are responsible for giving all of our experience it's meaning. We are the caretakers of the significance that we imbue into our … Continue reading Choosing the Meaning in the Waves of Challenge

Blowin’ in the Wind

Premature Cognitive Commitment... Did I lose you already?  Stay with me....it gets better....spoiler alert: this post is about knowing yourself, taking responsibility for all of your life, and then like a magician, molding your reality...but I need you to understand the above behavior as it helps illuminate my point...thank you in advance for your patience... … Continue reading Blowin’ in the Wind

It Doesn’t Matter

Literally...it doesn't matter.   That expression means more than you think it does.  When you love yourself wholly and completely, it does not matter what the outside reflection is showing you.  It does not matter if other people approve of your choices, decisions and way of life.   When you find the strength within to … Continue reading It Doesn’t Matter